Walking with the Dinosaurs was amazing. Think of life-size animatronic dinosaurs walking around. We went to lunch for BBQ first and had icecream at the show. Great day and lots of fun.
When H dropped me back at my car at the park-n-ride he said he might come over on Tuesday night. I said you could stay over if you want, since you have to work the next day. He said he would let me know.
Just to be on the safe side I picked up sheets for the new queen size bed that I put in the guest bedroom. He came over Tuesday, we went to the casual place I'd suggested the past Friday. Shared a wet burrito (a local delicacy) and then had ice cream. Went to the house after and he'd brought the movie Grand Tourino with Clint Eastwood.
The movie was really good. One of the best works I've ever seen Clint Eastwood in. H was really impressed with it as well.
H ended up staying. Hug and a kiss before bed and he said it was a really nice night tonight. I was glad to know he was in the other room. I kept it low key though. He had no idea how long I stayed up just listening to his breathing in the other room.
In the morning I was up before him. While he was in the shower I made him breakfast. He was surprised to come into the kitchen and find two sunny side up eggs, green tea and toast. Even set out the prunes that we both love.
On his way out the door he gave me another kiss and hug. I said ILY and he said ILY too. I told him to drive safely and he said I will talk to you soon.
One other thing, he took two books with him. One, called Why Did I Marry You Anyway, was one he'd bought when we had problems in 2003. He'd written all kinds of notes in the book about things he needed to do more of, things he needed to change, things we both could do better etc. I never even knew the notes were there. The other was Marriage Fitness by Mort Fertel.
He said that he would look over both books. All I said is that I appreciate it. I didn't get overly excited, although my heart was thumping so loud I am surprised he didn't hear it.
Since Wednesday morning there have only been text communication, but the last one asked me to have breakfast on Saturday morning. Then he said he would follow me to the house so he could move things around. He needs to move the snowblower to the shed and move his truck to the end bay so I can get ready to have a yard sale.
I didn't say I would have breakfast yet. I just said sleep tight.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.