Your ex sounds pretty opportunistic; fake divorce papers, getting married before being divorced and having sex with his ex (you) then saying he's a newlywed.
Hmmmm...
What are the laws in your state on bigamy?
Kids model after their parents. If you are dealing with things positively, so will they. The emotions of loss will still be there, they'll still need more assurance, firm boundaries to know you care. If they can't get the attention they need, they'll act out.. just to connect.
What him, her say about you is none of your business. What your friends want to share only hurts you more in the long run. Say 'no thanks' and put your energy towards you own growth and the welfare of your children.
