WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

And I agree, if she brings up divorce while you've got this going on, ask her to have a heart right now and give you a break.

Aren't you making an assumption that WAW's have a heart?!?!?

On the serious side, last week I pressed her that I didn't feel like I was being treated fairly by her lawyer and felt like he was trying to take advantage of me/us. I had posted all the details earlier, but without making it too long, I told her that I want a copy of everything that her lawyer sends/files that related to this case. If she can't make that happen, I know that my lawyer "friend" can.

I'm trying to keep my cool on this one for now. Although it was hard tonite when my boys were saying prayers, they prayed that mommy would come home soon and that daddy would find a new job soon. It really touched me and I told them that I thought their prayers were very nice. I'm really upset that they are going to pay the ultimate price for this divorce.

I've heard all the "the kids will be fine" saying, and even my wife walks around professing it. My response is always, that they could be better.

I know I need to survive and thrive. For me and for my boys.

Thanks for all your encouragement.