Listen, she may care about you as a "friend" but that's it. And she's caring right now because this impacts HER- that's why. Won't that affect child support or alimony??
Cut her off when she starts the drama. You need to worry about you hon.
Kittyfish,
I don't even think she cares about me as a friend right now. She has told me that she cares about me only because I'm the father of the kids and since I have them 50% of the time, she doesn't want me to do anything stupid.
The irony about this situation now is that I had thought about calling my lawyer to file for spousal and child support from her! I thought that would really pour some salt on her. Maybe that would be what it would take to knock some sense into her or what. I've held off right now as I'm trying to just not do something strictly out of emotion.
Thanks for stopping by and offering your support. This jobloss has really made my situation seem even bleaker. But I do know that I've faced adversity in the past and I've found the strenght to make it through to be stronger. I did it back them for me. Now that I have 2 boys counting on me as well, I know I can't fail them!
Thanks for being here for me
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13