So tonight...went out with a friend after work w calls about 8:30 and leaves a mesage...I just wanted to know your plan for tomorrow are you packing the kids and I thought you were coming over to see how to set up the the tent...
My s has cubscout camp this week and tomorrow is the overnight and me s and d. are going to camp. Yesterday my a said I should come over and set up the tent just so I knew how to do it...I said fine just call me and let me know if it's a good night. She never called and didn't say anything when I talked to her last night...
When I call her back tonight I could tell she wasn't happy. I tell her I'll come early and pack the kids no big deal. She says she already packed their stuff for camping ok twenty minutes ago you left a message wanting me to pack them I thought. Big pause in conv I ask anything else she says no, where are you, driving home...anything else she says no I say ok I'll talk to you later she says bye and hangs up...didn't wait for me to say bye, she never does that.
I call back because you have the choice of usingthe scout tents or bringing your own and s hadn't said what he wanted...so I ask which we weredoing she said the scout tents...wth thenwhy leave amessage about me not coming over to see how to set up new tent...I then ask why she hung up on me she said she didn't she said I said I'll talk to you later and thought that was my bye...every night I say I'll talkto you late then bye, every night...
Now during the whole conv I was happy good mood so I wasn't upset at all...I did ask her if she was mad at me she said no she's just tired...tired is code for somethings wrong I just don't want to tell you...
What did I do wrong?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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