Hi K - how long have you been sober? Congrats by the way for your change! I know it is hard. What is the sitch with you and your W? It looks a bit complicated. But it also looks like there is a chance to show her what I am talking about?

I would love to tell your W to give you a chance and listen. What does she know about A? How willing is she to learn? Do your actions match what you say? What have you done to convince her and how much is she taking in?

I will admit that I had to be just as willing to work on the R as H is, otherwise I probably wouldn't get it. Something I haven't really talked about much here is that we always thought that we had an incredible connection that kept us together no matter what.

How can i be supportive?


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11