Such a good point, we are both letting things go, it really doesn't even make sense to argue about most things. If you want to spend time with someone, why would you care about small things.
This week, my H has been really changing his reactions to old issues leaving nothing to argue about and everything to enjoy. That is another change, we are really enjoying each other. I didn't think that could happen again. I think I read that somewhere on another thread that there is a honeymoon period. The real test will be when we are under the same roof again 24/7. AT this point, I don't anticipate any problems. H is just passing by all the usual issues with flying colors.
I thought it would be hard to rebuild trust but it is coming along with the changes. What about you?