My own little voice haunted me twice. I did the research, and it was wrong. (Thankfully!!!)
I wish it wouldn't still make my ears ring though...
H is NOT computer proficient. (He has one in his office at home. I have to do everything. He doesn't even know what anything is called.) I've checked his history, his cookies, etc... I have his email password. Nothing alerts.
Cell phone is a different story. It's paid for, billed to, and handled by one of his companies (one w/a partner), and the partner does all of the financial stuff for the business. I have no access to it, and no reason to ask for it, or inquire into the account to the phone company. He keeps it very close, but always has.
His away activities for work. He owns a trucking company, and is either on-site coordinating drivers, loading/unloading trucks for drivers and/or driving between locations almost all business week. He gets home on Wednesday evenings. I talk to him about once a day, just checking in (both ways), and at all different times. There is most always "usual" noises in the background that are distinct to where he should be.
In IL you have to pay tolls with an IPASS. I have access to that account online. There are no alerts there.
Not sure what I "could" do, nor if I am prepared to handle negative information.
I DO AGREE THOUGHT THAT IS FAIR TO SNOOP IF YOU NEED IT FOR A D. Trust me... I would be all over it.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
