am going to appt so just a quick note--thanks for the comments though...
Yes I would think your w would be taking up new "exciting" hobbies if she simply didn't want to be m to you. She'd "validate" that it's life with you that is boring, not her life, or her attitude. She does sound depressed. Has she been seen by a professional? Are you worried that she's sitting there saying to herself, "Stk can't/won't keep me entertained and therefore he is boring and unfun and stopping me from having a good life which I could have with what's his name if only...if only..."??
B/C that is a possibility but seems to me she'd be getting out and doing something for her fantasy world if that were the case. Make sense? Like changing hair color and working out and making a new set of "fun" friends,etc. Will post more later.But I thinks she's got something bugging her other than OM....like inside. Also, let HER come up with something and help her get out of her "helpless" routine. She can pick a movie or activity to do, and how is she about doing something without the kids? Not a "date" if she won't call it that, but some film you want to see or a play or comedian (laughing together is HUGE) that is not appropriate for the kids?
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