Hey stuck. I, and I woild assume, many others, am in the same sitch as you. I have told other people that if they came to my house and observe W and me, they would not think anything was wrong. I don't understand it either. But, we don't have to and its just wasted energy to try. I see it more as their problem - they have the choice to make. our job is to make it hard for them to bolt by giving them a reason to stay.
