Couldn't see the rest of your posts on the phone...
AJ Thank you.
You hit the nail on the head a few times.
He is...
#1 - married to work #2 - He has issues to work out and is avoiding them
This has REALLY been going on a year and a half. I begun db'ing in November. The 650 million dollar question, is when and IF he will address his issues.
I'm not giving up. I just don't confide in anyone. It has to come out once in awhile.
This is probably due to D18 graduating, the kids home for summer, D18 moving out soon... I think a turning point will be if we sell our house. What then?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.