Great to hear you've got your "balls" back! : ) er, mojo.
You are right that I have to believe in doing what I'm doing for myself and not for her. I think when I forget that, it projects out as me being clingy.
No fear. That's the thing I have to get rid of. The fear of her not being my W any more. I've been trying alot of things that others have suggested and I'm alot better than I was, but I still have a ways to go. The fear is the one thing that is keeping me from detaching from her.
I have to REALLY see and treat her as a friend. The only problem is that I treat my female friends pretty damn good.
Send some of that mojo my way!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.