IMHO not at all. I read this as he was trying to get a rise out of you and you didn't play his game. He specifically told you he was going to a bar and instead of telling not to go, or anything negative, you told him to have fun. The right, why don't you give it up is him telling himself that you are not saying what you really feel.

It looks to me like he was trying to bait you into a fight or to hear you beg him not to go.

I don't know your sitch, but it sounds like gas-lighting to me.

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