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i had no idea this would hurt so bad i dont know how much more i can take. i want the pain to stop.


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The pain will eventually subside, time heals all wounds...

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Originally Posted By: idkwt2do
i had no idea this would hurt so bad i don't know how much more i can take. i want the pain to stop.


I am sorry you are hurting right now. I remember the pain. Let it out. Do not stuff it down. Do it away from spouse....

Remember, everything will be OK. Take each day as it comes. Hour by hour, or minute by minute if needed.....

Hang in there


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signed d papers today and went out to lunch.talked about papers just a little.she broke down and cried 3 or 4 times said tha she still loved me but just couldnt be with me any more.she also agreed to go out to dinner evey once in a while.so we can talk about the kids and make sure that we r on the same page with them.got mad a couple of times because i was making changes now that it was to late.when she got ready to go i ask her for one more hug. she told me no then about 3 hours later texted me and said sorry she should of gave me the hug.i sure get my hopes up. can do i have a chance has anyone been where im at and made it work?are this good signs or is she just tring to let me go easy?


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Be the best man you can be, show her what she is missing, and then it will be on her. Be confident that you are the best for her or any other woman.

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good advice from dburt....


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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Hi idkw2do,

I hope things are getting better for you. Remember that you will be a stronger person and healthier person regardless of what happens in the future.

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