i wish i would have realized what was going on 2 years ago, when protecting the finances was still an issue. i would have been able to stop the spending then most likely. i just didnt know about it. at all.
he was the most responsible person i had ever met in terms of money. or anything for that matter. i trusted him 200%, without a thought. i knew that whatever he said, was right, when it came to money and our finances. its unbelievable how someone can change so much, and hurt themselves so much, not even just me.
even last year when he thought i would mediate, i had to remind myself that at that point, he couldnt be trusted to look out for me, he wanted to leave me. and i still wanted to trust him. i have learned since then...
the only thing i can protect right now and worry about is our 401k. that is the only thing left. last year my attorney sent a letter protecting that money and will follow up again this year.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
