its a decision i think i will never really fully reach. it will have to forced on me and i will learn to live with it and accept it.

the good news is that i spoke to our acct, he has no clue we may be splitting, so he is honest and informative with me about the business and stuff. he went over what he needs from h regarding the business, also told me he will be looking to show a loss for my parents (which is great since they funded the store, he will help them for tax time next year)...im glad to know he is a legit guy and isnt hiding things.

he asked me to tell h to call him since i will see him tonight...lol, he has no clue that he isnt here. i just said, sure.

i have not spoken to him today. if he calls, i do not plan on answering, i will let my son answer today.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09