His is def not the SSM. His is the WAW with major control issues and A LOT OF BAGGAGE!! You are a wealth of knowledge and I've tried and tried to share with him to no-avail.
Thanks!!
btw: I have my H reading the New Male Sexuality book you recommended. Things are really getting much better. I've been working with my ds4 to get him out of our bed. Things are good, real good.