if you could pm me, I can give you his screen name
Howdy Dug; no PM's are permitted on any of these forums. You could recommend to him that he come tell us his story here (in the SSM forum), if you don't want to give his screen name directly.
-- b.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007