I have had for several years a WAW. We finally decided to separate about 3 weeks ago. Our marriage has not been the greatest. She says I was trying to control her and we argued frequently. I am a depressed person and do not want to lose my family (one kid). I am on an anti-depressant medication. She says she needs time to sort out her feelings. The first few weeks I tried and begged saying we could work things out but to no avail. This past week I have totally left her alone hoping to give her space she needs. I do not want to lose her but need advice what to do. Please help.
You probably just need lots more info. Why do you say your M was not the greatest. How old is your kid. How long have you been married to more detail the better.
Also read as many posts here as you can and try and post to others threads it gets people to post to yours.
Sorry you're here but theres a ton of good info to use.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
I have been married for almost 10 years now and I have a girl who is seven years old. My wife stated a couple months ago that she was tired of trying to please me and wants to make herself happy. My marriage was not the greatest because we never really emotionally connected.
Maybe it just faded away. How long does it take for someone to sort out their feelings. At least we are going to marriage counseling to hopefully work things out.
