You probably just need lots more info. Why do you say your M was not the greatest. How old is your kid. How long have you been married to more detail the better.

Also read as many posts here as you can and try and post to others threads it gets people to post to yours.

Sorry you're here but theres a ton of good info to use.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

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