I looked through the phone bill in detail about 6-7 months ago and got upset at all the people she's calling and texting all the time, when I get only a call or text here and there. Starting to wonder about numbers, who could that be? etc... etc...
So, since then, I have not done any of that. All that happens is me getting upset and there's nothing I can do about it, so why subject myself to that torture?? That was my rationale, for what it's worth...