"my wife has reminded me each day that this does not change the fact that she wants a divorce. Each time, I told her that I didn't expect it to. If she continues it, I will just tell her that I know so just drop it."
Are you frickin' kidding me? Why are you letting her beat you up on this while you're down? SHE DOESN'T MATTER! I don't know why you keep setting yourself up for this. Before she even gets into the D subject, tell her "look I got more problems to worry about than your drama and insincere concern, so I'm leaving now. Goodbye." In fact, don't even answer her calls.
Just like that.
You are about to lose everything you've worked for and your W doesn't care squat about you. Don't argue that "she does care". If she REALLY did, she wouldn't keep rubbing your nose into the D. Stop letting her run your life. Even S you are letting her pull your strings. Cut them off and let it go.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
