he was back, i think

[bluerain]

Hes not going to be ok. He is going to spend a long long time recovering from what hes done.

You, on the other hand, have worn yourself thin trying to save your marriage. You tried everything you could think of, even some things that seemed counterintuitive. He is the one who is going to have to stutter and search for the right words while he explains to his next partner what happened, while you will be able to sleep in peace knowing that you are truly committed to M. And Im sure that you have learned more than one thing about yourself and M through this.

Keep waiting, dont let him make you sign anything that you dont want to, or arent ready to. Let him see you become a strong independant woman, and when he comes crawling back with his tail between his legs, it will be interesting to see if you even want him anymore.