How is your relationship outside the bedroom? Are you meeting your W where she wants to be met? The 5 Love Languages that are so often discussed up in Newcomers comes to mind. Have you taken time to figure out your W's love language? Is it Acts of Service, Quality Time... I wonder if you did some research here, and then started to consider and act upon what she values as a demonstration of love. This change might warm her up to you and make her appreciate you more. THEN the door will be open to her heart and her lips and her....
