WAH from chaos to peace.

[bluerain]

I think thats totally normal. We have just started talking about "our" house and "our" property.

I noticed a change in my reactions the other day. We were discussing Charleston, I told him that while hes there to really pay attention because I would love to live in South Carolina, he replied that Charleston is in Georgia... I know, just bear with me... I didnt argue, or anything, which is what I would have done in the past, but after a second or two he realized that he had been wrong and corrected himself. Our last big fat fight was him storming off yelling about how I always had to be right (I was right that time too ).

So it feels good to see yourself not biting and taking the destructive bait. I feel better knowing that I am not taking action that I know doesnt work. I know that Charelston is in SC, who knows, maybe there is a Charelston Ga too, I didnt need to correct him. It was an intimate converstation between the 2 of us. Letting it slide wasnt going to hurt anything.

Im so glad that you are seeing these positive changes in your R. It sounds nice to be feeling good about eachother again.

Keep it up!