Luckily H's car will only cost about $500 to fix (hopefully) and he will have to borrow some $ from me (promising to pay me back tomorrow on payday, hopefully + half of the mortgage + half of the bills so far for the month! That will probably leave him with not much spare money).

We didn't really talk about anything else... He's not having much luck hijacking anyone's internet access at his apartment so he has to go to a coffee shop to get online.

You know, we were talking yesterday and he said that he had walked home from the dealership where he had dropped his car - and I was aghast that he walked all the way across town... Then I said "oh, I forgot you don't live with me anymore!" (his apt is 'only' 40 blocks from the dealership) Things are so NOT different for me in terms of his presence in my life that I forgot he has his own place now...

Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011