my little voice talked to me quite often and I listened to it..
so I snooped...I had her followed one time..and she did lie about where she was going but she was not with OP..I never got proof of an OP but i always suspected it and i still do to an extent..I put a program on our computer that let me know exactly who she emailed, what she looked at...got her passwords, got her bank info...
don't ever think that someone who cheats will not "have time"...if they have a lunch break then they have time..if they use a computer then they have time...if they have a cell then they have time..
trust but verify...just don't get caught and be prepared for what you find.
DB principles be damned.....
and I don't regret snooping especially if your heading towards a D...alls fair in love and war
