Well, my opinion is that it's promising, but I wouldn't call it coming out of the fog. Don't want to discourage you at all tho!! It seems to me (agree with Mike there), that it's better to just take it for what it is and have no expectations for the future. It will just end in dissappointment. Keep doing what you're doing!
hey, haven't read much, and I probably won't be on much in the future., do you have me in the alt? on FB? please find me if you haven't, look for Crissy Seamster and thank you for your prayers, she is doing much better too
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
So MB, how goes it? You've been too busy to post lately, no?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Everything is going "fine" for the simple reason that I don't push anything more than "FAMILY" activities, family time, etc... We get along great. We laugh. We smile. We get slightly annoyed by each other. Period.
I have nothing else to say, because I that's all there is.
I GAL, quite often. I focus on things other than H. I am busy. I am working on myself physically.
I am still haunted by this feeling of rejection. It consumes my heart.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
my little voice talked to me quite often and I listened to it..
so I snooped...I had her followed one time..and she did lie about where she was going but she was not with OP..I never got proof of an OP but i always suspected it and i still do to an extent..I put a program on our computer that let me know exactly who she emailed, what she looked at...got her passwords, got her bank info...
don't ever think that someone who cheats will not "have time"...if they have a lunch break then they have time..if they use a computer then they have time...if they have a cell then they have time..
trust but verify...just don't get caught and be prepared for what you find.
DB principles be damned.....
and I don't regret snooping especially if your heading towards a D...alls fair in love and war
I looked through the phone bill in detail about 6-7 months ago and got upset at all the people she's calling and texting all the time, when I get only a call or text here and there. Starting to wonder about numbers, who could that be? etc... etc...
So, since then, I have not done any of that. All that happens is me getting upset and there's nothing I can do about it, so why subject myself to that torture?? That was my rationale, for what it's worth...
