Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Interesting idea that its like time stood still for him. I guess he was very depressed and desperate and I was thinking these past few days, he seems SOOO differnet, his old self again and everything is so fine between us, its like.. did it really happen, or did I dream all of this !!??? Its very bizarre.

Thanks ROb, Kat and Mish, so nice to be able to post a happy ending here but I continue to realise how lucky and blessed I am. I dont really feel the need to take it slow or be careful or any of those things either Rob, its just so ok between us, no awkwardness, no holding back, no frowns, cross words, atmospoheres, nothing! Just lots of cuddles and kisses and enjoying being together.. like a feeling of immense relief on both sides is how I would describe it.

He continues to be aware of me being careful.. like I try and make him decide on things and he says, No, YOU decide! Or I apologise here and there and hesays "Please, DONT apologise anymore".. so he is not stupid and any last traces of dbing in my demeanour are obvious to him.. I think he wants me to relax and not worry anymore and on the whole, I'm not worried !!

I always said, it felt like a "life interrupted" and now its normal again (but I would say, better). I looked at him yesterday and thought.. wow, we made it, we really made it.
xxx