I agree, I always felt your H was very shut off and just not reacting normally. Have you asked him amongst all tehse convos you had the past few days, if he feels that he may be depressed? I'm sorry you are sad and lonely, alone and single as you put it, its all so disappointing. I've seen your H's pic and he IS handsome and slim and he's clearly a professionaly, charming, educated guy, you have two beautiful kids with him and once loved each other very much.. it just feels such a waste but its absolutely his doing, throwing this away. I can see you feel left with little choice but to cut him out of your future, as he just refuses to meet you anywhere near 1/4 way, neverlone 1/2 way.
Miss you, hugs Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread