I agree with Bill on the MLC issue. It seems they start to regress trying to capture something they think they had in their past. The problem is, they seem to overlook that they had problems back then too.
If the spouses haven't changed themselves and addressed the issues that they had which contributed to the demise of the M, they are destined to repeat the same cycle - different faces, different issues, same pile of cr@p.
Karma - sometimes it takes a long time for the Karma wheel to boomerang. Often it's totally unrelated to you. The greatest Karma I can envision is where the WAS turns around and gets haunted by the overwhelming feeling they made a mistake and they just can't shake it. A guy can hope can't he? lol In the meantime I try to keep my karma payback to a minimum as I move through the sitch I've now found myself in.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
