Originally Posted By: stillloveshim
did she really call and complain about HER JOB?????


She called to see how I was doing and I would always ask how she was doing. That's when she would complain about her job.

It's still clear to me that my job loss is not helping my situation with her either, rather it may actually cement the path that we are on. I wouldn't want her to come back just because I lost my job, but I think she is using it as an affirmation that leaving me was a right decision since I can't even keep a job that I focused all my energy/time/attention on ahead of her. Perhaps she is taking this as justice. Only she and God knows.

Right now I'm focusing all my energy on finding a job to hopefully save the only home that my boys have known. I have prepped them that it will not matter where we live nor the size of the house. I will always love them and I will always be their dad.

Gotta keep on keeping on....


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13