I am totally with you on that. I have someone I love AND he's the father of my child. Done deal for me. No one else will ever be able to say that except for him....."I'm the father of her child". That's a huge deal for me.....him being my S's father just makes me love him more.
I'm not sure how my girlfriend got to the place where she is ready to date again, but I just don't see myself getting there any time soon....I know probably again, I'll want to date and fall in love and all the rest of it, but now, not so much.
I'm with you Hopeful.