I really wonder why your H wants to move out on the one hand, and then date you on the other hand. And couldn`t he just go see an attorney without letting you know if it was just an informational meeting? seems like he`s still trying to hook you in and leave you dangling along.
Maybe his moving out will give you both a clear space to recover from the crazy dance. To detach enough to see if there`s something decent worth saving instead of engaging in a game of fear/control.
Maybe LRT mixed with the Love Dare thing confused him too-now you want him/now you don`t. Would it be a good time now just to `go dark`?
Perhaps keep your focus on healing you and minding the kids?Let him make his own journey to find himself and what he wants.Maybe in this game we get too caught into minding our partner`s life and not minding our own enough!
