This is very inspiring stuff. There seems to be a lot of mojo on this Board now. Several people are taking postive steps. Of course it will be different for everyone since it depends on how far on the journey you are and how long you have been hanging in there. But we are getting mojified!
It has all reinforced one thing to me. We are responsible for OUR own lives and how we live them. It is not selfish to focus on ourselves and to try to "deliver fearlessly for ourselves".
BTW, you've got his atttention now. What did Ms. Alanis Morisette say about life being ironic?
You know, we do seem to ebb and flow collectively here.
H texted me some juvenile comment about sex on the first date...when I stop playing ball, he'll likely find a new playmate. When you deprive a narcissist of attention, they fight for it and eventually move on.
There is too much irony to tell on here, but eventually, the story will be told.
I can't accept giving up one more moment of my attention that should be given to my kids. I know what I need to do and hopefully, tomorrow afternoon and evening, I wont be posting here if I'm doing the right thing.
