If it makes you feel any better (and I know it probably doesn't), this is very typical. Most couples in affairs -- even in their 40s and 50s -- sound like high school stuff. "I love YOU more." "No, I love YOU more."
Blcccch.
Is it sick that when I was telling my friend about the texts I saw this morning, that I was almost laughing...completely amazed that 2 adults could be having that conversation?...one of them a married woman who had sex with her husband twice within the last 10 days.
Oh, and just in case anyone was wondering...no..not since she admitted her intentions after coming back from vacation.
Other then the R talks that I started, communication is limited to the basics. She is sleeping on the couch by choice, which she had done often as it was...now it's just a given.
There is no fighting, yelling or screaming...the past couple of evenings I got out alone for a couple beers and a game of pool...tonight she is out. Limbo, I guess, for now but I won't keep this up.