M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
25, I have been passing them on to him and i'm sorry it's taken me so long to get back. This new site doesn't help me since I can't reply with my blackberry.
I will continue to pass on to him advice and comments as I can.
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
He was suppose to have both his boys this summer but she refused to let the oldest go since he isn't biological. This boy only knows cherrish as dad since 5 months old. This isn't sitting well with the poor kid.
She also tried her best to keep the youngest from coming and wouldn't let him drive down with his grandparents to help save money. She even tried to stop him flying down but cherrish was able to legally convince her that wasn't a good idea.
She is trying everything to be vindictive and mean even at the boys detriment.
Cherrish did finally move into a house and is surviving best he can but just can't possibly afford to pay what was ordered at his higher wage. Not even close.
It amazes me still how the system can react at a snails pace at times.
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
Yes, when I met him and the boys when this all started a few years back the oldest was wracked with emotional pain. She had already been witholding him from having visits.
Cherrish asked me to post an update tonight and implored anyone with some advice to please post. He is at wits end and very angry.
As I mentioned before Cherrish went back to court and asked for a modification to what he's paying for child support and spousal maintainance based on unemployment and subsequent major reduction of income, almost 50% less. The judge (commissioner) carried it over until trial in November. He said there could be no change until a trial and then it could be hashed out.
Cherrish received something today that the judge (commissioner) signed garnishing his wages and demanding arrears to the toon of $18,000. This is a complete 180 from what he said in court.
It seems this happended with his EX's atty in court without Cherrish's atty present or even knowledgable about this.
Cherrish is very angry to say the least and wants me to post the county and name of judge (commissioner) on here. He really wants to sue the courts and everyone involved in this. He asks me to post and ask anyone for advice and knowledge of anybody or organization that can help him.
25, if you're still reading, any thoughts?
If anybody knows of someone that can help he really needs the advice. He had a call in to his atty as of the last time I spoke with him but don't know what happended with that.
cire (for Cherrishher)
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Cherrish asked me to post an update tonight and implored anyone with some advice to please post. He is at wits end and very angry.
As I mentioned before Cherrish went back to court and asked for a modification to what he's paying for child support and spousal maintainance based on unemployment and subsequent major reduction of income, almost 50% less. The judge (commissioner) carried it over until trial in November. He said there could be no change until a trial and then it could be hashed out.
Cherrish received something today that the judge (commissioner) signed garnishing his wages and demanding arrears to the toon of $18,000. This is a complete 180 from what he said in court.
It seems this happended with his EX's atty in court without Cherrish's atty present or even knowledgable about this.
Hard to believe....sorry, but it is. Something is not right with this fact scenario but I'm not saying Cher is lying...just "unusual" legal events, to say the least.
Cherrish is very angry to say the least and wants me to post the county and name of judge (commissioner) on here. He really wants to sue the courts and everyone involved in this. He asks me to post and ask anyone for advice and knowledge of anybody or organization that can help him.
I gave my advice already and have nothing else to offer. He HAS A L and can call the "Father's" Lawyers if he wants. What else is there to do? If his L has offered proof of the reduction in wages, then maybe he needs to consider bankruptcy but I'm not a Bknrpcy L....what does HIS L SAY? Why are you posting here and not him?
25, if you're still reading, any thoughts?
See above. I think there are facts here that are not being put out. Either the L sucks, or Cher is leaving something out, or the system in uniquely conspiring against him...what can I say? What is his L doing and saying about this?
If anybody knows of someone that can help he really needs the advice. He had a call in to his atty as of the last time I spoke with him but don't know what happended with that.
Well that's the crux of this, isn't it? Otherwise you are asking a doctor here to diagnose and prescribe without the lab results ALL while saying that the treating doctor owes him a 'call'....so, yeah, HIS L needs to do some talking. What is he paying him for and how did Cher hire that one?
cire (for Cherrishher)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
