It was a pleasure to meet you tonight! Thanks for your too kind words!
I know that you ARE processing the feedback that you get here whether it is always apparent or not. As we discussed, you owe it to both yourself and your W to give her space...so, you BOTH can work on your healing and growth! One thing I forgot to send you was this link to the detachment information we discussed. This website gives a really good overview of "what is detachment" and "why is it important":
Remember that this is all about rebuilding "trust" with your W and there is a lot of work to do. You DO have what it takes to do this...with a strong helping from God!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
