Okay here are my thoughts. For a long time I didn't tell anyone about the affair because I didn't want to "jepordize" our reconciliation attempts. Then I realized he was telling people outrageous untruths about me such as I never cooked, cleaned, etc. Maybe those areas were not up to par of a Stepford wife, but I work full time and did a pretty good job. So it got to when people asked me what happened I told them that he decided his secretary was more important than his family. Enough said...they didn't say much more. Vindictive? Perhaps, but I also looked at as defending myself and letting them know he wasn't the poor mistreated soul he tried to pretend he was.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
