I have to wonder, is there ever a day that your W doesn't have drama? Sounds like she has to call you just to complain about her problems. Excuse me? You are the one who lost his job. Did she think she could "cheer" you up be telling you her problems?
Unbelievable.
Honestly, the next time she calls to complain again, don't even answer. You've been way too accessible to her. Concentrate on yourself buddy.
Hang in there.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.