Hi Judyc

I was glad to read that you are doing well and have been busy with activities. I have been writing on this blog but, I, too find that I can occupy myself and then when it is all over and I come home, it is a very difficult time. I have resorted to having the TV on most of the time I am alone. I have it on mute most of the time and yet, I keep it on! Isn't that crazy?

I can feel your pain with your anniversary coming up. Of course, I think, he will think of you....its something he,too, cannot possibly escape in thought....though he may be better at shoving it aside.....I think he will be thinking of you. I am already feeling scared to face mine...though it is 2 months away. Have you planned anything for Saturday? Please have a plan for that day. Some rough outline.....

I was thinking the other day that you, hopeful_cb, and I started on this blog about the same time and I was thinking how much more ahead of me you both are....I feel as if each day is still up for grabs....though being in a new city trying to get situated has kept me busy and......distracted. Anyways, I just wanted to say that YES! YOU are totally inspiring.


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09