Anyway, my point has nothing to do with exposing the extramarital activities, and everything to do with standing up for what's right, and not tolerating disrespectful behavior.
Mark, you were one of the people that really helped me out so much when I found myself here, just so depressed, and you were one of the main people who really helped me out. I think DB and the knowledge that I did need to stop tolerating disrespectful behavior really was important for me. I'm so glad to see you here now so I can thank you!
I didn't tell anyone for the longest time about my H's A, but once I did start telling my friends, it was really good for me. I would like to think it wasn't vengeance, but it was hard on me before I told, keeping secrets for H and basically lying (like when I got asked all the time where H was and I knew he was out with OW) and I would cover that up. I felt so much better when the truth was out. How are you doing and what's going on with you? I hope you will start your own thread and give us an update? But just glad to hear from you! Karen
