I dont have enough experience to help you with this
some posters have had H who return and leave again multiple times
so he is home now?
is he willing to sek counsling with you
that may help-
maybe try in piecing?
keep posting others will reply
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow