yes, there is a ow, a nasty one at that! if u check my other thread, u can see the ugly history i have had with her.

she doesnt seem to think she is the mistress. and she wants to marry him.

he has lied to both of us for almost 3 years.

he has left home and come back 2 separate times, most recently a few weeks ago, AFTER he came home and opened a business with me, as a way to start fresh.

he left his high paying job and area where she lived to come home.

and now this.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09