the letter said "give custody to the mother", and then listed his visitation. im assuming that meant not joint custody.

he did not sign the letter, it was a 1 paragraph letter, seemed alittle odd to me.

i agree, if he is truly offering full custody, this is not a man i should want. its rather sad.

i need to fully accept and see him for what he has become.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09