Thanks, Kat. It's been a hard few weeks. I haven't wanted to come on the computer as much. With my son home from the summer now, it makes it harder as well.
Only update is that H told me he is going to get a book on intimacy to educate himself on some things and get some questions answered. All I can say is...ABOUT TIME!!!!! This is going to sound wierd, but he has been doing this clingy, sugary, too tender thing ALL THE TIME and it is turning me wayyyy offff! I need a man. Those of you men wanting to get your wives back...please don't act all mushy gushy....ickkkkkk! My H is almost acting like I am his child in the way he is being with me.....I want a husband, not a parent!!! Maybe it was the funeral, and he is trying to be kind. I need him to have some of his OWN interests, perhaps meet with some other guys some times without me, and then after doing those things for a while....make some sort of manly move....not all romancey cheesey tender stuff.....Something more primal, or at least talking about it even if it doesn't happen......his wants/ his desires, etc.....He even does this baby voice that is driving me insane.......
Ok, any nice way to talk to H about this without taking every ounce of confidence away from him?
