Crush go read my sitch and you will notice we have ALOT in common as far as what your h, xh's has done. Yes mine wanted a divorce 60 days or so after we sep. He said his lawyer told him he needed to wait that long. He said when he left he would give me 30 days, that I at least deserved that. Whatever. Anyway go read but DONT do what I have done or said. It has taken me awhile just to even listen to people here. I thought my sitch was different, my xh was different. I dont think so. Anyway please hang in there for your children if nothing else. They need you. Are old are they? Is your h with younger woman? Mine went for a 26 year old.
