It's automatic when you feel it

[Jayce]

Hi, #5. Glad the "beads" worked. The dampness later isn't much different than from sex w/out condom. I always kinda liked that. Reminder that I got laid :-) H says Liq.Silk burns?! Astroglide got sticky. KY always does. Don't know what to try next. Silicone based? Passionate Marriage is not a quick, slick read. I go back & read parts twice. Will read it again. The 'anxiety leading to growth' parts are true. I know H's resistance is cuz he's way out of his comfort zone. Doesn't like to let much out & hates change. We got to boring sex once a week & now, surprise, he initiates more, obviously into it & trying a little new stuff. Still not talking, tho. Says "I don't talk". Maybe that'll come eventually, too. Took 1 1/2 yrs. So you only have 6 mo to go ;-)hang in there!
Jayce