havent posted in a while, usually post under infidelity.

please, someone check out my posts there.

to catch my situation up, things between h and me have been ok, on good terms.

he has been nice, following me around the house when he comes, acting as if its still his house.

he has been doing odd, personal things in front of me, that one should only do with his wife.

he has been flirting, touching me and we have been intimate.

so today, i get a letter from my lawyer, giving me a copy of the letter from h's lawyer, wanting to make a settlement!

i was so shocked!

if he wants to split so badly, why is he so all over me?

is this part of the mlc?

how to proceed? keep acting nice and friendly?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09