I really think you W is trying to manipulate the situation here to be honest. My H played this number on me before. Six years back before we were married, I was absolutely tired of ILYBINILWY crap and felt done in a way. I went and had an A, told H the very same night. In fact I did it in revenge. He tried to use that against me til this day. He acted like he was not having an A. Days later I learned from a femail friend that he was manipulating and was in fact seeing someone else. Ahhhh, and still I married him.
But she's trying to take attention off of her actions.
